An unusual wedding drama shared on Reddit has sparked more than 3,500 reactions, with one bride asking others on the platform if she was wrong to leave her own wedding reception in reaction to a “tantrum” thrown by her new sister-in-law, who apparently didn’t. he wanted the couple to leave the place when they did.
Fox News Digital reached out to a psychologist for comment as the story continued to gain traction.
The woman, with the username “unaliveplant,” shared some “brief background” with others, saying she is 27 years old and “from the United Kingdom.”
Her husband, she wrote in the subreddit known as “AITA” (“Am I the idiot”), is 38 years old and from the United States.
He said the couple had a “long-distance” romance for two years before getting married.
She also has a young son from a previous relationship, she said.
Before the wedding, she wrote, she “met my in-laws via video calls, but not in person until a week before my wedding.” [actual] wedding.”
By comparison, she said her husband had visited her many times in the UK and stayed with her for weeks at a time, meeting other people in their circle.
Before the wedding, one new bride wrote, “she met my in-laws via video calls, but not in person until a week before my wedding.” [actual] wedding.” Apiwan – stock.adobe.com
“When I arrived in the United States and… finally met the family, it was difficult because they claimed they wanted to meet me many times, but none of them tried to engage me in conversation,” the woman wrote.
“They didn’t ask questions and everyone was talking about things I had no idea about. [about]since they were sports or something I couldn’t even try to participate in, like reliving memories that I couldn’t really comment on, other than [saying]’That sounds amazing’ or ‘That’s great,’” he continued.
She said her husband’s family “kept claiming they wanted to meet me.”
The wedding day itself, the new bride wrote, “was great,” but problems began to arise as the wedding reception was ending. lisavoy – stock.adobe.com
Meanwhile, she said, she went out “from time to time to take a break from uncomfortable social situations (due to having severe anxiety),” adding that because the family seemed “unable to know me,” I felt ignored and invisible. .”
Their wedding day, he wrote, “was great.”
After the ceremony, he wrote, people “started having fun.”
And then, he said, “more or less” the same situation occurred as before.
“No one spoke to me,” the woman wrote. “The only people who really had conversations with me were my friends.”
She said she and her new husband “spent most of the time together” and, around 8 p.m., a good friend of hers, someone she had been spending time with at the after-wedding party, left.
The bride (not pictured) was upset, she wrote, because her new sister-in-law started throwing a “tantrum” as the wedding party was ending. “I yelled at my husband that I was leaving with or without him.” She added the new girlfriend: “I know [it] “It wasn’t my brightest moment, but I was tired.” nyul – stock.adobe.com
At that time, he wrote, “no one [else] “He spoke a lot to me and my husband at that time.”
She said that when 9 p.m. arrived, she took off her wedding dress “and started[ed] trying to pack things. “So there wasn’t much to do at the end of the night.”
It was then, he added, that his 48-year-old sister-in-law “realized[d] We were leaving”.
One commenter wrote of the unusual situation described in the post: “It seems like his family knows something you don’t. “His behavior is extremely strange.” Antonio Díaz – stock.adobe.com
Her new husband, the woman wrote on Reddit, had been “playing with my son (who is 5 years old).”
Her husband’s sister, she wrote, began “screaming at me, asking if we were leaving, as if in severe shock.”
The girlfriend added that the sister-in-law “yelled at me three times until she then stormed out and… well, she threw a tantrum.”
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The girlfriend continued: “My husband tried to go calm her down, but it didn’t work and she continued” crying.
“When I told my husband that the Uber [was there]” to them and that it was time for them to leave the place, “I was exhausted and extremely upset at this point, after being yelled at…I just wanted to leave.”
Then, she added, “I yelled at my husband that I was leaving with or without him.”
The woman added: “I know. [it] “It wasn’t my brightest moment, but I was tired, especially since my biological clock wasn’t changing either.”
The couple eventually left and “now his sister [was] angry. [Plus] her husband [was] crazy”, too.
As a result, the bride wrote, the sister-in-law’s husband decided that the couple could not keep the “wedding video that he recorded for us” because he considered the bride to be “immature for not staying a little longer.” after seeing an angry sister-in-law.
The bride added in her social media post: “I understand that she is upset, but at the same time, she [could have] “He took us aside and had a civil conversation with us instead of yelling at me and throwing a tantrum like a child.”
In an edit to her post and in response to a question from others, she wrote that her sister-in-law was upset because she apparently “wanted to spend more time with her brother.”
“I said that we [had] the whole next week to spend time with her and stuff, but she just said that [was] too busy.”
Meanwhile, the bride said, her new husband has not yet “moved to the UK. He will soon be leaving again to fix things at home and apply for a visa to move here, which will take a minimum of three months.”
Others considered that the woman “is not an idiot” after her publication.
Among the comments of other people who have come to the drama: “This is your husband’s problem. Just ignore it,” wrote a user on the platform, receiving more than 6,500 “positive votes” for that comment.
Some commenters expressed confusion about aspects of the woman’s story, with one writing: “I really don’t understand why [the husband’s] Sister was upset… You were already leaving [the venue]. You didn’t leave because of your sister. “You left because the reception was over.”
Another commenter said directly to the original poster: “How much effort did you put into meeting his family?”
Another person wrote: “It seems like his family knows something you don’t know. “His behavior is extremely strange.”
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