No matter how they ultimately turn out, most relationships usually start out on a positive note, or at least we’d like to think that way. However, in many cases, signs of potential problems may be present from the beginning.
A relationship coach tries to rescue people. He’s sharing the five big red flags you should look out for when starting a new relationship.
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- What are the warning signs you should never ignore when starting a new relationship?
- 1. Special secrets
- 2. Speak ill of an ex
- 3. Indecision
- 4. Hit friends
- 5. Conflicting ambitions
What are the warning signs you should never ignore when starting a new relationship?
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Dating expert Jacob Lucas is using social media to highlight five major warning signs to look out for when you’ve recently met someone who could be a potential special someone.
1. Special secrets
According to Jacob’s advice, the biggest early sign you should take seriously is to get into a relationship with someone who starts sharing their personal problems right away.
To be more precise, the dating coach clarified that from the beginning you should be careful with secrets or issues that evoke sympathy in you.
2. Speak ill of an ex
Although anyone who has left a previous relationship may feel the need to talk about some of their ex-partner’s behaviors, it is not advisable to do so with a new partner.
In particular, it’s crucial to be careful when using terms like “crazy,” blaming your ex for everything, and oversharing intimate details of a past relationship with someone new.
3. Indecision
No one expects to be in a relationship with someone who has difficulty making decisions.
Jacob says it’s crucial to note whether you’re the one who sets up all the dates and takes charge of the important decisions in your relationship. While people may joke about who takes the lead in a relationship, if you’re the one making all the decisions, it can be quite exhausting.
4. Hit friends
Complaining about an ex-partner can be a problem, but constantly criticizing friends is also a problem.
One of the benefits of being an adult is the ability to select your companions. If someone continually badmouths their friends to you when they’re not around, it may not reflect well on their character.
5. Conflicting ambitions
Knowing your life goals and being with a partner who has completely opposite desires can cause problems.
For example, if you prefer quiet nights at home, being with a party animal who goes to clubs every weekend won’t be a good match. The dating coach emphasized that in a relationship, you either evolve together or grow apart. If both people in a relationship want very different things, they are more likely to break up.
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